Marilyn saw the following on the Internet this morning.
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"The effects of a disaster, terrorist attack, or other public health emergency can be long-lasting, and the resulting trauma can reverberate even with those not directly affected by the disaster. This page provides general strategies for promoting mental health and resilience. These strategies were developed by various organizations based on experiences in prior disasters. Site produced by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention."
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She felt it was interesting because of the loss of our cabins in Missouri due to the floods in April/May, 2011. See Coping with a Disaster.
Marilyn said that she and Al experienced some of the things that are discussed in the article– loss, displacement and coping with relocation where it was disorienting for daily life. She said that not only the material losses, but the loss of frequent contact with friends and family were tough to deal with.
I am happy to report that they did most of the things advised – got help, counseling and worked on improving their health. Things are looking up around here. They are getting into more familiar routines and it is helpful to have Ben and his family nearby. Somehow it is hard to think of them as “elderly” but I guess that is the reality. I am liking it here as I love sitting on the back of the couch and looking out the window to warn of anyone (especially school buses) passing by. I feel very useful and needed.
Lucky

I believe things happen for a reason, even if we don't immediately know what that reason is. Sounds as if Marilyn and Al are dealing with their "ordeal" nicely.
Posted by: Connie (Hanavan) Brennan | February 03, 2012 at 05:05 PM